Epictetus' Enchiridion
I
There are things which are within our power, and there are things which are
beyond our power. Within our power are opinion, aim, desire, aversion, and in
one word, whatever affairs are our own. Beyond our power are body, property,
reputation, office, and, in one word, whatever are not properly our own affairs.
Now, the things within our power are by nature free, unrestricted, unhindered;
but those beyond our power are weak, dependent, restricted, alien. Remember,
then, that if you attribute freedom to things by nature dependent, and take
what belongs to others for you own, you will be hindered, you will lament, you
will be disturbed, you will find fault both with gods and men. But if you take
for your own only that which it really is, then no one will ever compel you,
no one will restrict you, you will find fault with no one, you will accuse no
one, you will do nothing against your will; no one will hurt you, you will not
have an enemy, nor will you suffer any harm. Aiming therefore at such great
things, remember that you must not allow yourself any inclination, however slight,
towards the attainment of the others; but that you must entirely quit some of
them, and for the present postpone the rest. But if you would have these, and
possess power and wealth likewise, you may miss the latter in seeking the former;
and you will certainly fail of that by which alone happiness and freedom are
procured. Seek at once, therefore, to be able to say to every unpleasing semblance,
"You are but a semblance and by no means the real thing." And then examine it
by those rules which you have; and first and chiefly, by this: whether it concerns
the things which are within our own power, or those which are not; and if it
concerns anything beyond our power, be prepared to say that it is nothing to
you.
II
Remember that desire demands the attainment of that of which you are desirous
and aversion demands the avoidance of that to which you are averse; that he
who fails of the object of his desires is disappointed; and he who incurs the
object of his aversion is wretched. If, then, you shun only those undesirable
things which you can control, you will never incur anything you shun; but if
you shun sickness, or death, or poverty, you will run the risk of wretchedness.
Remove aversion, then, from all things that are not within our power, and apply
it to things undesirable, which are within our power. But for the present altogether
restrain desire; for if you desire any of the things not within our own power,
you must necessarily be disappointed; and you are not yet secure of those which
are within our power, and so are legitimate objects of desire. Where it is practically
necessary for you to pursue or avoid anything, do even this with discretion,
and gentleness, and moderation.
III
With regard to whatever objects either delight the mind, or contribute to use,
or are tenderly beloved, remind yourself of what nature they are, beginning
with the merest trifles: if you have a favorite cup, that it is but a cup of
which you are fond, - for thus, if it is broken, you can bear it; if you embrace
your child, or your wife, that you embrace a mortal, - and thus, if either of
them dies, you can bear it.
IV
When you set about any action, remind yourself of what nature the action is.
If you are going to bathe, represent to yourself the incidents usual in the
bath, - some persons pouring out, others pushing in , others scolding, others
pilfering. And thus you will more safely go about this action, if you say to
yourself, "I will now go to bathe, and keep my own will in harmony with nature."
And so with regard to every other action. For thus, if any impediment arises
in bathing, you will be able to say, "It was not only to bathe that I desired,
but to keep my will in harmony with nature; and I shall not keep it thus, if
I am out of humor at things that happen."
V
Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things.
Thus death is nothing terrible, else it would have appeared so to Socrates.
But the terror consists in our notion of death, that it is terrible. When, therefore,
we are hindered, or disturbed, or grieved let us never impute it to others,
but to ourselves; that is, to our own views. It is the action of an uninstructed
person to reproach others for his own misfortunes; of one entering upon instruction,
to reproach himself; and of one perfectly instructed, to reproach neither others
or himself.
VI
Be not elated at any excellence not your own. If a horse should be elated, and
say, "I am handsome," it might be endurable. But when you are elated, and say,
"I have a handsome horse," know that you are elated only on the merit of the
horse. What then is your own? The use of phenomena of existence. So that when
you are in harmony with nature in this respect, you will be elated with some
reason; for you will be elated at some good of your own.
VII
As in a voyage, when the ship is at anchor, if you go on shore to get water,
you may amuse yourself with picking up a shell-fish or a truffle in your way,
but your thoughts ought to be bent towards the ship, and perpetually attentive,
lest the captain should call, and then you must leave all these things, that
you may not have to be carried on board the vessel, bound like a sheep; thus
likewise in life, if , instead of a truffle or shell-fish, such a thing as a
wife or child be granted you , there is not objection; but is the captain calls,
run to the ship, leave all these things, and never look back. But if you are
old, never too far from the ship, lest you should be missing when called for.
VIII
Demand not that events should happen as you wish; but wish them to happen as
they do happen, and you will go on well.
IX
Sickness is an impediment to the body, but not to the will, unless itself pleases.
Lameness is an impediment to the leg, but not to the will; and say this to yourself
with regard to everything that happens. For you will find it to be an impediment
to something else, but not truly to yourself.
X
Upon every accident, remember to turn towards yourself and inquire what faculty
you have for its use. If you encounter a handsome person, you will find continence
the faculty needed; if pain, then fortitude; if reviling, then patience. And
when thus habituated, the phenomena of existence will not overwhelm you.
XI
Never say of anything, "I have lost it; "but, "I have restored it." Has your
child died? It is restored. Has your wife died? She is restored. Has your estate
been taken away? That likewise is restored. "But it was a bad man who took it."
What is it to you by whose hands he who gave it has demanded it again? While
he permits you to possess it, hold it as something not your won; as do travelers
at an inn.
XII
If you would improve, lay aside such reasonings as these: "If I neglect my affairs,
I shall not have a maintenance; if I do not punish my servant, he will be good
for nothing." For it were better to die of hunger, exempt from grief and fear,
than to live in affluence with perturbation; and it is better that your servant
should be bad than you unhappy. Begin therefore with little things. Is a little
oil spilt or a little wine stolen? Say to yourself, "This is the price paid
for peace and tranquillity; and nothing is to be had for nothing." And when
you call your servant, consider that it is possible he may not come at your
call; or, if he does, that he may not do what you wish. But it is not at all
desirable for him, and very undesirable for you, that it should be in his power
to cause you any disturbance.
XIII
If you would improve, be content to be thought foolish and dull with regard
to externals. Do not desire to be thought to know anything; and though you should
appear to others to be somebody, distrust yourself. For be assured, it is not
easy at once to keep your will in harmony with nature, and to secure externals;
but while you are absorbed in the one, you must of necessity neglect the other.
XIV
If you wish your children and your wife and your friends to live forever, you
are foolish; for you wish things to be in your power which are not so; and what
belongs to others to be your own. So likewise, if you wish your servant to be
without fault, you are foolish; for you wish vice not to be vice, but something
else. But if you wish not to be disappointed in your desires, that is in your
own power. Exercise, therefore, what is in your power. A man's master is he
who is able to confer or remove whatever that man seeks or shuns. Whoever then
would be free, let him wish for nothing, let him decline nothing, which depends
on others; else he must necessarily be a slave.
XV
Remember that you must behave as at a banquet. Is anything brought round to
you? Put out your hand, and take a moderate share. Does it pass you? Do not
stop it. Is it not come yet? Do not yearn in desire towards it, but wait till
it reaches you. So with regard to children , wife, office, riches; and you will
some time or other be worthy to feast with the gods. And if you do not so much
as take the things which are set before you, but are able even to forego them,
then you will not only be worthy to feast with the gods, but to rule with them
also. For, by thus doing, Diogenes and Heraclitus, and others like them, deservedly
became divine, and were so recognized.
XVI
When you see any one weeping for grief, either that his son has gone abroad,
or that he has suffered in his affairs, take care not to be overcome by the
apparent evil; but discriminate, and be ready to say, "What hurts this man is
not this occurrence itself, - for another man might not be hurt it, - but the
view he chooses to take of it." As far as conversation goes, however, do not
disdain to accommodate yourself to him, and if need be, to groan with him. Take
heed, however, not to groan inwardly too.
XVII
Remember that you are an actor in a drama of such sort as the author chooses,
- if short, then in a short one; if long, then in along one. If it be his pleasure
that you should enact a poor man, see that you act it well; or a cripple, or
a ruler, or a private citizen. For this is your business, to act well the given
part; but to choose it, belongs to another.
XVIII
When a raven happens to croak unluckily, be not overcome by appearances, but
discriminate, and say, - Nothing is pretended to me; but either to my paltry
body, or property, or reputation, or children, or wife. But to me all portents
are lucky, if I will. For whatsoever happens, it belongs to me to derive advantage
therefrom."
XIX
You can be unconquerable, if you enter into no combat in which it is not in
your own power to conquer. When, therefore, you see any one eminent in honors
or power, or high esteem on any other account, take heed not to be bewildered
by appearances and to pronounce him happy; for if the essence of good consists
in things within our own power, there will be no room for envy or emulation.
But, for your part, do not desire to be a general, or a senator, or a consul,
but to be free; and the only way to this is a disregard of things which lie
not within our own power.
XX
Remember that it is not he who gives abuse or blows who affronts; but the view
we take of these things as insulting. When, therefore, any one provokes you,
be assured that it is your won opinion which provokes you. Try, therefore, in
the first place, not to be bewildered by appearances. For if you once gain time
and respite, you will more easily command yourself.
XXI
Let death and exile, and all other things which appear terrible, be daily before
your eyes, but death chiefly; and you will never entertain any abject thought,
not too eagerly covet anything.
XXII
If you have an earnest desire towards philosophy, prepare yourself from the
very first to have the multitude laugh and sneer, and say, "He is returned to
us a philosopher all at once; "and "Whence this supercilious look?" Now, for
your part, do not have a supercilious look indeed; but keep steadily to those
things which appear best to you, as one appointed by God to this particular
station. For remember that, if you are persistent, those very persons who at
first ridiculed will afterwards admire you. But if you are conquered by them,
you will incur a double ridicule.
XXIII
If you ever happen to turn your attention to externals, for the pleasure of
any one, be assured that you have ruined your scheme of life. Be contented,
then, in everything, with being a philosopher; and if you with to seem so likewise
to any one, appear so to yourself, and it will suffice you.
***XXIV
Don't allow such considerations as these distress you. "I will live in dishonor,
and be nobody anywhere." For, if dishonor is an evil, you can no more be involved
in any evil by the means of another, than be engaged in anything base. Is it
any business of yours, then, to get power, or to be admitted to an entertainment?
By no means. How, then, after all, is this a dishonor? And how is it true that
you will be nobody anywhere, when you ought to be somebody in those things only
which are in your own control, in which you may be of the greatest consequence?
"But my friends will be unassisted." -- What do you mean by unassisted? They
will not have money from you, nor will you make them Roman citizens. Who told
you, then, that these are among the things in our own control, and not the affair
of others? And who can give to another the things which he has not himself?
"Well, but get them, then, that we too may have a share." If I can get them
with the preservation of my own honor and fidelity and greatness of mind, show
me the way and I will get them; but if you require me to lose my own proper
good that you may gain what is not good, consider how inequitable and foolish
you are. Besides, which would you rather have, a sum of money, or a friend of
fidelity and honor? Rather assist me, then, to gain this character than require
me to do those things by which I may lose it. Well, but my country, say you,
as far as depends on me, will be unassisted. Here again, what assistance is
this you mean? "It will not have porticoes nor baths of your providing." And
what signifies that? Why, neither does a smith provide it with shoes, or a shoemaker
with arms. It is enough if everyone fully performs his own proper business.
And were you to supply it with another citizen of honor and fidelity, would
not he be of use to it? Yes. Therefore neither are you yourself useless to it.
"What place, then, say you, will I hold in the state?" Whatever you can hold
with the preservation of your fidelity and honor. But if, by desiring to be
useful to that, you lose these, of what use can you be to your country when
you are become faithless and void of shame.
***XXV 25.
Is anyone preferred before you at an entertainment, or in a compliment, or in
being admitted to a consultation? If these things are good, you ought to be
glad that he has gotten them; and if they are evil, don't be grieved that you
have not gotten them. And remember that you cannot, without using the same means
[which others do] to acquire things not in our own control, expect to be thought
worthy of an equal share of them. For how can he who does not frequent the door
of any [great] man, does not attend him, does not praise him, have an equal
share with him who does? You are unjust, then, and insatiable, if you are unwilling
to pay the price for which these things are sold, and would have them for nothing.
For how much is lettuce sold? Fifty cents, for instance. If another, then, paying
fifty cents, takes the lettuce, and you, not paying it, go without them, don't
imagine that he has gained any advantage over you. For as he has the lettuce,
so you have the fifty cents which you did not give. So, in the present case,
you have not been invited to such a person's entertainment, because you have
not paid him the price for which a supper is sold. It is sold for praise; it
is sold for attendance. Give him then the value, if it is for your advantage.
But if you would, at the same time, not pay the one and yet receive the other,
you are insatiable, and a blockhead. Have you nothing, then, instead of the
supper? Yes, indeed, you have: the not praising him, whom you don't like to
praise; the not bearing with his behavior at coming in.
XXVI
The will of Nature may be learned form things upon which we are all agreed.
As, when our neighbor's boy has broken a cup, or the like, we are ready at once
to say, "These are casualties that will happen; " be assured, then, that when
your own cup is likewise broken, you ought to be affected just as when another’s
cup was broken. Now apply this to greater things. Is the child or wife of another
dead? There is no one who would not say, "This is an accident of mortality."
But if any one's own child happens to die, it is immediately, "Alas! how wretched
am I!" It should be always remembered how we are affected on hearing the same
thing concerning others.
XXVII
As a mark is not set up for the sake of missing the aim, so neither does the
nature of evil exist in the world. XXVIII If a person had delivered up your
body to some passer-by, you would certainly be angry. And do you feel no shame
in delivering up your own mind to any reviler, to be disconcerted and confounded?
***XXIX
In every affair consider what precedes and follows, and then undertake it. Otherwise
you will begin with spirit; but not having thought of the consequences, when
some of them appear you will shamefully desist. "I would conquer at the Olympic
games." But consider what precedes and follows, and then, if it is for your
advantage, engage in the affair. You must conform to rules, submit to a diet,
refrain from dainties; exercise your body, whether you choose it or not, at
a stated hour, in heat and cold; you must drink no cold water, nor sometimes
even wine. In a word, you must give yourself up to your master, as to a physician.
Then, in the combat, you may be thrown into a ditch, dislocate your arm, turn
your ankle, swallow dust, be whipped, and, after all, lose the victory. When
you have evaluated all this, if your inclination still holds, then go to war.
Otherwise, take notice, you will behave like children who sometimes play like
wrestlers, sometimes gladiators, sometimes blow a trumpet, and sometimes act
a tragedy when they have seen and admired these shows. Thus you too will be
at one time a wrestler, at another a gladiator, now a philosopher, then an orator;
but with your whole soul, nothing at all. Like an ape, you mimic all you see,
and one thing after another is sure to please you, but is out of favor as soon
as it becomes familiar. For you have never entered upon anything considerately,
nor after having viewed the whole matter on all sides, or made any scrutiny
into it, but rashly, and with a cold inclination. Thus some, when they have
seen a philosopher and heard a man speaking like Euphrates (though, indeed,
who can speak like him?), have a mind to be philosophers too. Consider first,
man, what the matter is, and what your own nature is able to bear. If you would
be a wrestler, consider your shoulders, your back, your thighs; for different
persons are made for different things. Do you think that you can act as you
do, and be a philosopher? That you can eat and drink, and be angry and discontented
as you are now? You must watch, you must labor, you must get the better of certain
appetites, must quit your acquaintance, be despised by your servant, be laughed
at by those you meet; come off worse than others in everything, in magistracies,
in honors, in courts of judicature. When you have considered all these things
round, approach, if you please; if, by parting with them, you have a mind to
purchase apathy, freedom, and tranquillity. If not, don't come here; don't,
like children, be one while a philosopher, then a publican, then an orator,
and then one of Caesar's officers. These things are not consistent. You must
be one man, either good or bad. You must cultivate either your own ruling faculty
or externals, and apply yourself either to things within or without you; that
is, be either a philosopher, or one of the vulgar.
XXX
Duties are universally measured by relations. Is a certain man your father?
In this are implied, taking car of him; submitting to him in all things; patiently
receiving his reproached, his correction. But he is a bad father. Is your natural
tie, then, to a good father? No, but to a father. Is a brother unjust? Well,
preserve your own just relation towards him. Consider not what he does, but
what you are to do, to keep your own will in state conformable to nature. For
another cannot hurt you, unless you please. You will then be hurt when you consent
to be hurt. In this manner, therefore, if you accustom yourself to contemplate
the relations of neighbor, citizen, commander, you can deduce from each the
corresponding duties.
***XXXI
Be assured that the essential property of piety towards the gods is to form
right opinions concerning them, as existing "I and as governing the universe
with goodness and justice. And fix yourself in this resolution, to obey them,
and yield to them, and willingly follow them in all events, as produced by the
most perfect understanding. For thus you will never find fault with the gods,
nor accuse them as neglecting you. And it is not possible for this to be effected
any other way than by withdrawing yourself from things not in our own control,
and placing good or evil in those only which are. For if you suppose any of
the things not in our own control to be either good or evil, when you are disappointed
of what you wish, or incur what you would avoid, you must necessarily find fault
with and blame the authors. For every animal is naturally formed to fly and
abhor things that appear hurtful, and the causes of them; and to pursue and
admire those which appear beneficial, and the causes of them. It is impractical,
then, that one who supposes himself to be hurt should be happy about the person
who, he thinks, hurts him, just as it is impossible to be happy about the hurt
itself. Hence, also, a father is reviled by a son, when he does not impart to
him the things which he takes to be good; and the supposing empire to be a good
made Polynices and Eteocles mutually enemies. On this account the husbandman,
the sailor, the merchant, on this account those who lose wives and children,
revile the gods. For where interest is, there too is piety placed. So that,
whoever is careful to regulate his desires and aversions as he ought, is, by
the very same means, careful of piety likewise. But it is also incumbent on
everyone to offer libations and sacrifices and first fruits, conformably to
the customs of his country, with purity, and not in a slovenly manner, nor negligently,
nor sparingly, nor beyond his ability.
***XXXII
When you have recourse to divination, remember that you know not what the event
will be, and you come to learn it of the diviner; but of what nature it is you
know before you come, at least if you are a philosopher. For if it is among
the things not in our own control, it can by no means be either good or evil.
Don't, therefore, bring either desire or aversion with you to the diviner (else
you will approach him trembling), but first acquire a distinct knowledge that
every event is indifferent and nothing to you., of whatever sort it may be,
for it will be in your power to make a right use of it, and this no one can
hinder; then come with confidence to the gods, as your counselors, and afterwards,
when any counsel is given you, remember what counselors you have assumed, and
whose advice you will neglect if you disobey. Come to divination, as Socrates
prescribed, in cases of which the whole consideration relates to the event,
and in which no opportunities are afforded by reason, or any other art, to discover
the thing proposed to be learned. When, therefore, it is our duty to share the
danger of a friend or of our country, we ought not to consult the oracle whether
we will share it with them or not. For, though the diviner should forewarn you
that the victims are unfavorable, this means no more than that either death
or mutilation or exile is portended. But we have reason within us, and it directs,
even with these hazards, to the greater diviner, the Pythian god, who cast out
of the temple the person who gave no assistance to his friend while another
was murdering him.
XXXIII
Begin by prescribing to yourself some character and demeanor, such as you may
preserve both alone and in company. Be mostly silent; or speak merely what is
needful, and in few words. We may, however, enter sparingly into discourse sometimes,
when occasion calls for it; but let it not run on any of the common subjects,
as gladiators, or horse-races, or athletic champions, or food, or drink, - the
vulgar topics of conversation; and especially not on men, so as either to blame,
or praise, or make comparisons. If you are able, then, by your own conversation,
bring over that of your company to proper subjects; but if you happen to find
yourself among strangers, be silent. Let not your laughter be loud, frequent,
or abundant. Avoid taking oaths, if possible, altogether; at any rate, so far
as you are able. Avoid public and vulgar entertainments; but if ever an occasion
calls you to them, keep your attention upon the stretch, that you may not imperceptibly
slide into vulgarity. For be assured that if a person be ever so pure himself,
yet, if his companion be corrupted, he who converses with him will be corrupted
likewise. Provide things relating to the body no farther thatn absolute need
requires; as meat, drink, clothing, house, retinue. But cut off everything that
looks towards show and luxury. Before marriage, guard yourself with all your
ability from unlawful intercourse with women; yet be not uncharitable or severe
to those who are led into this, not frequently boast that you yourself do otherwise.
If any one tells you that such a person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses
about what is said of you, but answer: "He was ignorant of my other faults,
else he would not have mentioned these alone." It is not necessary for you to
appear often at public spectacles; but if ever there is a proper occasion for
you to be there, do not appear more solicitous for any other than for yourself;
that is, wich things to be only jsut as they are, and only the best man to win:
for thus nothing will go against you. BUt abstain entireyly from acclamations
and derision and violent emotions. And when you come away, do not discourse
a great deal on what has passed, and what contributes nothing to your own amendment.
For it would appear by such discourse that you were dazzled by the show. Be
not prompt or ready to attend private recitations; but if you do attend, preserve
your gravity and dignity, and yet avoid making yourself disagreeable. When you
are going to confer with any one, and espesially with one who seems your superior,
represetn to yourself how Socrates or Zeno would behave in such a case, and
you will not be at a loss to meet properly whatever may occur. WHen you are
going before any one in power, fancy to yourself that you may not find him at
home, that you may be shut out, that the doors may not be opened to you, that
he may not notivce you. If, with all this, it be your duty to go, bear what
happens, and never say to yourself, "It was not worth so much." For this is
vulgar, and like a man bewildered by externals. In society, avoid a frequent
and excessive mention of your own actions and dangers. For however agreeable
it may be to yourself to allude to risks you have run, it is not egaully agreeable
to others to hear your adventures. Avoid likewise an endeavor to exciter laughter.
For this may readily slide you into vulgarity, and, besides, may be apt to lower
you in the esteem of your acquaintance. Approaches to indecent discourse are
likewise dangerous. Therefore when anythong of this sort happens, use the first
fir opportunity to rebuke him who makes advances that way; or, at least, by
silence and blushing and a serious look, show yourself to be displeased by such
talk.
XXXIV
If you are dazzled by the semblance of any promised pleasure; guard yourself
against being bewildered by it; but let the affair wait your leisure, and procure
yourself some delay. Then bring to your mind both points of time, - that in
which you shall enjoy the pleasure, and that in which you will repent and reproach
yourself, after you have enjoyed it, - - and set before you, in opposition to
these, how you will rejoice and applaud yourself, if you abstain. And even though
it should appear to you a seasonable gratification, take heed that its enticements
and allurements and seductions may not subdue you; but set in opposition to
this, how much better it is to be conscious of having gained so great a victory.
XXXV
When you do anything from a clear judgment that it ought to be done, never shrink
from being seen to do it, even though the world should misunderstand it; for
if you are not acting rightly, shun the action itself; if you are, why fear
those who wrongly censure you?
XXXVI
As the proposition, either it is day, or it is night, has much force in a disjunctive
argument, but none at all in aconjuctive one; so, at a feast, to choose the
largest share is very suitable to the bodily appetite, but utterly inconsistent
with the social spirit of the entertainment. Remember, then, when you eat with
another, not only the value to the body of those things which are set before
you, but also the value of proper courtesy toward your host.
XXXVII
If you have assumed any character beyond your strength, you have both demeaned
yourself ill that, and quitted one which you might have supported.
XXXVIII
As in walking you take care not to tread upon a nail, or turn your foot, so
likewise take care not to hurt the ruling faculty of your mind. And if we were
to guard against this in every action, we should enter upon action more safely.
XXXIX
The body is to every one the proper measure of its possessions, as the foot
is of the shoe. If, therefore, you stop at this, you will keep the measure;
but if you move beyond it, you must necessarily be carried forward, as down
a precipice; as in the case of a shoe, if you go beyond its fitness to the foot,
it comes first to be gilded, then purple, and then studded with jewels. For
to that which once exceeds the fit measure ther is no bound.
XL
Women from fourteen years old are flattered by men with the title of mistress.
Therefore, preceiving that they are regarded only as qualified to give men pleasure,
they begin to adorn themsleves, and in that to place all their hopes. It is
worth while, therefore, to try that they may perceive themselves honored only
so far as they appear beautiful in their demeanor, and modestly virtuous.
XLI
It is a mark of want of intellect, to spend much time in things relating to
the body; as to be immoderate in exercises, in eating and drinking, and in the
discharge of other animal functions. These things should be done incidentally
and our main strength be applied to our reason.
XLII
When any person does ill by you, or speaks ill of you, remember that he acts
or pseaks from an impression that it is right for him to do so. Now, it is not
possible that he should follow what appears right to you, but only what appears
so to himself. Therefore, if he judges from false appearnaces, he is the person
hurt; since he too is the person deceived. For if any one takes a true proposition
to be false, the proposition is not hurt, but only the man is deceived. Setting
out, from these principles, you will meekly bear with a person who reviles you;
for you will say upon every occasion, "It seemed so to him."
XLIII
Everything has two handles: one by which it may be borne, another by which it
cannot. If your brother acts unjustly, do not lay hold on the affair ny the
handle of his injustice, for by that it cannot be borne; but rather ny the opposite,
that he is your brother, that he was brought up with you; and thus you will
lay hold on it as it is to be borne.
XLIV
These reasonings have no logical connection: "I am richer thatn you; therefore
I am superior." "I am more eloquent than you; therefore I am your superior."
The true logical connection is rather this: "I am richer than you; therefore
my possessions must exceed yours." "I am more eloquent than you; therefore my
style must surpass yours." But you, after all, consist neither in property nor
in style.
XLV
Does any one bathe hastily? Do not say that he does it ill, but hastily. Does
any one much wine? Do not say that he does ill, but that he drinks a great deal.
For unless you perfectly understand his motives, how should you know if he acts
ill? Thus you will not risk yielding to any appearances but such as you fully
comprehend.
XLVI
Never proclaim yourself a philosopher; nor make much talk among the ignorant
about your principles, but show them by actions. This, at an entertaiment, do
not discourse how people ought to eat; but eat as you ought. For remember that
thus Socrates also universally avoided all ostentation. And when persons came
to him, and desired to be introduced by him to philosophers, he took them and
introduced them and introduced them; so well did he bear being overlooked. So
if ever there should be among the ignorant any discusssion of principles, be
for the most part silent. For ther is great danger in hastily throwing out what
is undigested. And if any one tells you that you know nothing, and you are not
nettled at it, then you may be sure that you have really entered on you rowkr.
For sheep do not hastily throw up the grass, to show the shepherds how much
they have eaten; but, inwardly digesting their food, they produce it outwardly
in wool and milk. Thus, therefore, do you not make an exhibition before the
ignorant of your principles; but of the actions to which their digestion gives
rise.
XLVII
When you have learned to nourish your body frugally, do not pique yourself upon
it; nor, if you drink wter, be saying upon every occasion, "I drink water."
But first consider how much more frugal are the poor than we, and how much more
patient of hardship. If at any time you would insure yourself by exercise to
labor and privation, for your own sake and not for the public, do not attempt
great feats; but when you are ciolently thirsty, just rinse your mouth with
water, and tell nobody.
XLVIII
The condition and characteristic of a vulgar person is that he never looks for
either help or harm from himself, but only from externals. The condition and
characteristic of a philosopher is that he looks to hilself for all help or
harm. The marks of a proficient are that he censures no one, praises no one,
blames no one, accuses no one; says nothing concerning himself as being anybody,
or knowing anything. When he is in any instance hindered or restrained, he accuses
himself; and if he is praises, he smiles to himself at the person who praises
him; and if he is censured, he makes no defence. But he goes about with anything
that is doing will, but not yet quite secure. He restrains only which thwart
the proper use of our own will; he employs his energies moderately in all directions;
if he appears stupid or ignorant, he does not care; and, in a word, he keeps
watch over himself as over an enemy and one in ambush.
XLIX
When any one shows himself vain, on being, able to understand and interpret
the works of Chrysippus, say to yourself: "Unless Chrysippus had written obscurely,
this person would have had nothing to be vain of. But what do I desire? To understand
Nature, and follow her. I ask, then, who interprets her; and hearing that Chrysippus
does, I have recourse to him. I do not understand his writings. I seek, therefore,
one to interpret them." So far there is nothing to value myself upon. And when
I find an interpreter, what remains is to make use of his instructions. This
alone is the valuable thing, But if I admire merely the interpretation, what
do I become more than a grammarian, instead of a philosopher, except, indeed,
that instead of Homer I interpret Chrysippus? When anyone, therefore, desires
me to Chrysippus to him. I rather blush, when I cannot exhibit actions that
are harmonious and consonant with his discourse.
L
Whatever rules you have adopted, abide by them as laws, and as if you would
be impious to transgress them; and do not regard what any one says of you, for
this, after all, is no concern of yours. How long, then, will you delay to demand
of yourself the noblest improvements, and in no instance to transgress the judgments
of reason? You have received the philosophic principles with which you ought
to be conversant; and you have been conversant with them. For what other master,
then, do you wait as an excuse for this delay in self-reformation? You are no
longer a boy, but a grown man. If, therefore, you will be negligent and slothful,
and always add procrastination to procrastination, purpose to purpose, and fix
day after day in which you will atttend to yourself, you will insensibly continue
to accomplish nothing, and, living and dying, remain of vulgar mind. This instant,
then, thinkyourself worthy of living as a noun grown up and a proficient. Let
whatever appears to be the vest, be to you an inviolable law. ANd if any instance
of pain or pleasure, glory or disgrace, be set before you, remember that now
is the combat, now the Olympiad comes on, nor can it be out off; and that by
one failure and defeat honor may be lost - or won. Thus Socrates became perfect,
improving himself by everything, following reason alone. And though you are
not yet a Socrates, you ought, however, to live as one seeking to be a Socrates.
LI
The first and the most necessary topic in philosophy is the practical application
of principles, as, We ought not to die; the second is that of demonstrations,
as, Why it is that we ought not to die; the third, that which gives strength
and logical connection to the other two, as, Why this is a demonstration. For
what is demonstration? What is a consequence; what a contradiction; what truth;
what falsehood? The third point is then necessary on account of the second;
and the second on account of the first. But we do the most necessary, and that
whereon we ought to rest, is the first. But we do just the contrary. For we
spend all our time on the third point, and employ all our diligence about that,
and entirely neglect the first. Therefore, at the same time that we lie, we
are very ready to show how it is demonstrated that lying is wrong. LII Upon
all occasions we ought to have these maxims ready at hand: - "Conduct me, Zeus,
and thou, O Destiny. Wherever your decrees have fised my lot. I follow cheerfully;
and did I not, Wicked and wretched, I must follow still." "Whoe'er yields properly
to Fate is deemed Wise among men, and knows the laws of Heaven." And this third:
- "O Crito, if it thus pleases the gods, thus let it be." "Anytus and Melitus
may kill me indeed; but hurt me they cannot."